Sergio Lopez - Captain, US ARMY - HC-11

Shaun,

I served with Christian while stationed in HC-11 in 1998. He was one of the smartest people I have ever known. He used to come inside the PR shop and while getting his flight gear, he would spend some time chatting with me. He was selected to the very competitive Seaman to Admiral program a year before me and I always hoped that we would serve again together. My sincere condolences to you and his family. The navy has lost one of its true warriors.

Sergio Lopez
Captain, US ARMY

Graveside

Ben & Kristin Dunlap, Friend - US Marine

Dear Shaun,
My name is Ben Dunlap. My wife, Kristin, and I met Christian and Ruth in 2003 while Christian was attending schooling in Pensacola. We were recently told that Christian was killed. Kristin and I were fortunate to have met Christian while he was stationed here. We attended his graduation (& the celebration dinner afterwards) and were impressed how he was the senior man and the leader of his graduating class. At the time, I was two years out of the Marine Corps and considering trying to lose the spare tire from all the chocolate cake I ate since getting out and going back in to become a pilot. Although the career move didn't work out for me, I remember Christian talking to me about what Navy aviation was all about and the steps one has to take to be successful. He, Ruth, Kristin and I were able to get together a few times as well at each other's houses, playing video games (online plane shoot-em ups) and watching movies. Of the very few moments I was able to have experienced with Christian, I just had the overall feeling of what a great guy he was--easygoing, warm, willing to take the time (and the shirt off his back) to help you out if you needed it. We express our sincere condolences to you, to Ruth and to your whole family. We will continue to pray for you and yours as you grieve. We are comforted with the knowledge that Christian is having a beautiful day today with his Savior; Kristin and I very much look forward to seeing him again.

Sincerely,
Ben and Kristin Dunlap

AW2(AW/NAC) Angel M. Gracia, US Navy - HSC 25

Mr. Hescock,

I apologize for the tardiness of this email. From the first day I met your brother, I knew he was a man that was very respected just for his genuine character and caring heart. I deployed with him on the USNS Shasta and the USNS Mercy. He tried to sway me to go STA-21, but I never thought I would make it b/c I measured myself against your brother. I have finally decided to give it a try. God willing, I will be submitting an application for next year's board. I always wondered how a great person came to be. I was able see that through the letters of your parents and yourself read during his memorial. You all did a great job in rearing a wonderful person. Your brother is sorely missed. God bless you all. You are in our prayers.

I'll go through my hard drive and continue to send more pics.

V/R
AW2(AW/NAC) Angel M. Gracia
Training PO
CBR Program Manager
HSC-25 Island KnightsAndersen AFB, Guam

Yvette Gauna, Friend

Hello Shaun,

I hope you are doing well. I took some time today to go through the website you put together for Christian. The first time I just glanced, anticipating it would be difficult to get through. But what an awesome memorial you created! It was beautiful, the tribute letter was inspiring and the music was perfect. It was incredibly uplifting, moving and showcased to perfection what his life was all about and how he touched everyone he knew. Shaun, that you gave everyone a place to express how they felt, and allowed them to grieve, during your time of grief, is a true expression of your love for your brother, and I hope it will give you the comfort you need.

As I read the messages, so many great memories of him came flooding back. One in particular came back and made me laugh through tears, and prompted me to write...when we had that hair-brained scheme to open a paintball field. Remember that one? We were both fired up to quit our jobs and be millionaires..and Christian could get me fired up like no one else I knew! What was I thinking? Must have been the endorphins and pain from playing paintball for 12 hours straight (might be a slight exaggeration). Then came the Shaun, cold water reality check..So why would you need a plan or insurance, or financing for paintballing? Thanks for that, right then I realized who the logical one in the family was LOL.

Through the years of phone calls and emails a handful of topics we always seemed to cover come to mind :
Politics (he republican, me independent/leaning to the left) so you can understand the length of our conversations, and the bantering that went on.
Yankees and his dislike of them
Our lives
But more importantly his love and concern for you (Owen, as he fondly and lovingly referred to you, and I grew to know you as.. I can explain if you ever want to know) and of course your mom, who he adored.

I hardly know you Shaun (yet feel like I do through countless conversations) and I would be remiss in not letting you know how much Christian loved, admired and respected you. He talked often of what you meant in his life. I absolutely loved his "Owen" stories as I like to refer to them. Some were hysterically funny, some shocking (I always reminded him there were 3 sides to every story), but always entertaining and definitely animated, as you know he could make them. He was very open about the challenges you both faced growing up and how it affected him. Having you as a brother to look up to helped to create the awesome man that he became. I hope he expressed that to you, because as a sibling myself, we often take for granted our relationships and don't let them know how much we love and are inspired by them. As you expressed, I will try and live my life to the fullest with passion, love, fun, inspiration, honor, loyalty and pride. A tall order, I know, but the least I can do to learn from, honor, and make sense of why his journey ended so soon. I will miss him the rest of my life.

Please know that I extend to you or your mom, what I did with Christian...that if he ever needed anything I would always be there just a phone call or email away. If you or your mom ever wanted to visit San Diego again, my home and heart is open to you. I hope we stay in touch and maybe some day we will play a round of paintball, decked out in camouflage or flight suit, light up a cig, and cool off with a can of Mountain dew for him!

All my thoughts and prayers,
Yvette Gauna

Victoria Will

I didn't know Lt. Hescock however; I stumbled across the article while looking up an older article regarding a similar incident. I wanted you all to know my heart hurts for you as my eyes streamed with tears over your loss. I looked at pictures posted in the comments and noticed he once worked at HC-11. Depending on when he was there he may have worked with my husband. I felt compelled to reach out to his widow. I myself was widowed in a similar fashion 9 months ago. I want to send my deepest sympathy and support to her. I know it's strange to have strangers offering condolences but I found that having people who truly understand really helps at times. If you could pass this message along tell her anything she needs anytime she can contact me. Again I'm sorry for your loss and grateful to your brother who gave his life for the love of his country...for everyone of us. A great big Thank You to you all for your sacrifice.

Sincerely,
Victoria Will

Jennifer (Holt) Pomerinke, Friend, Church

Hey Shaun -- this Jennifer Pomerinke -- better known to you as Jen Holt

Gosh - there are no words for times like this! I have been in shock ever since Susanna (Dinwiddie) Gangle called and told me about our great loss. I truly am so very sorry -- please give my love to your mom.

I have been thinking back of all the great memories I have you of both of you....like the time Christian insisted there was room for me to ride with you both in your 2 seater Triumph -- he gave me the front seat and jumped in the trunk! You both were so good to me and such as huge part of my "summer" memories in Oregon City.

When I was crying after I heard the "news" -- my little girl came over with a tissue, patting my arm -- telling me "you have to remember your friend died for a good cause Mommy". Thats the truth! I am so proud of Christian's accomplishments and the sacrifice he was willing to make for us! "Critter, we won't forget"!

Ruth, please know I am at a loss for words . . . .I can only imagine!

My love and prayers go out to you all

Jen (Holt) Pomerinke

Diving Pictures of Christian and Ruth

Major & Mrs. Karen Mueller, US Air Force - Neighbors in Guam

Shaun & Ruth & family,
We had the pleasure of being neighbors of Christian and Ruth in Guam. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Christian was a wonderful person that always had a smile on his face. I remember meeting him when he first moved to Mango Drive. I was out with a few of my kids & Christian had just got his puppy. My kids were so excited to see/meet the dog, that the dog jumped up on Christian causing him to spill his hot cup of coffee on himself. Christian just smiled & laughed.
We enjoyed our time on Guam as their neighbors and seeing their puppy grow; and all the beautiful landscaping they added to the yard. We are glad we had the opportunity to be his neighbor, and we know he's an angel watching over everyone now.
May God bless Ruth and your family.

Major & Mrs. Karen Mueller (Air Force)Bridgette, Mark Jr., Gretchen, Ingrid, & Katarina
Mango Drive neighbors

Chris & Marci Brunett, US Navy

Hi Shaun,

My name is Marci Brunett. I am so sorry to be emailing you under these circumstances, but I could not pass up the chance to tell you and your family how much I thought of your brother, Christian and his wife, Ruth. First, please accept my heart-felt sympathy and know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers every single day.

I am sure you’ve noticed a common thread in many of the posts – Christian’s selfless devotion to others. In that vein, I would like to share a short story about a time in the recent past that Christian impacted my life in a very real way.

My husband, Chris Brunett, was the Commanding Officer of HSC-25 from May 2006 until early August when we departed Guam for his new duty station in VA. During the last 3+ months of our time in Guam, Chris was deployed with the Air Ambulance detachment in Kuwait. Thus, he was not at home in June and July to help me prepare for our move. Now, after nearly 18 years as a Navy spouse, I have quite a bit of experience with moving, but this was the first move I ever had to do on my own.

In April a few days before Chris departed for Kuwait, the Wardroom got together on a Friday afternoon at the club and gave him a nice little send-off. We had a fun time and the party eventually moved to our house for a few more hours. I remember Christian pulling me aside as he was getting ready to leave that night. He said, “Ma’am, before your movers come to start packing your things I want you to call me. I’ll come over and unhook your computers and your other electronic equipment and pack it all up for you because if you don’t do it right then your stuff is going to get messed up.”

I thanked him and didn’t think much about his offer until a day or so before the movers were scheduled to begin packing. By then, Chris had been gone for about 6 weeks and I was knee-deep in preparing the house for the move, arranging the shipment of our car, coordinating settlement on the new house we were buying in VA and taking care of our two children. At that point and being a fairly non-tech-savvy person, figuring out how to unhook and pack up our two computers, stereo system and three televisions seemed like more than I could handle. So I emailed Christian and asked if his offer was still available, which, of course, it was.

The next afternoon on his way home from work, Christian showed up at my house with zip-lock bags, rubber bands, zip ties, a permanent marker and his usual friendly smile. He proceeded to spend at least three hours carefully unhooking all of our computer components and other electronic equipment. He painstakingly packaged and labeled everything. He also used my digital camera to take pictures of all the model/serial numbers just in case something was damaged in the move and I had to file an insurance claim.

Several weeks later, I had a question about how to back-up some files on another computer before shipping it. The very next day he arrived at my house again. That time he spent several more hours burning CDs of some files I didn’t want to lose if the computer was damaged or lost in the move. I specifically remember that he and Ruth had just returned from their trip back to the States a few days before and that Christian was leaving again the following day for some training in San Diego. I kept trying to kick him out of the house, telling him to go home and spend some time with Ruth before his trip the next day, but he would not leave until all the files were copied and all the CDs were labeled.

I cannot begin to tell you how much he helped me on those two occasions and how much I appreciated it. The computer I am using right now to send you this email was one of the ones he helped me with. It was also the computer I was sitting in front of nearly two weeks ago when I first learned of the mishap at HSC-25 and your brother’s untimely death.

So, I just wanted you to know that I am one more person whose life was touched by Christian’s kindness. Although I didn’t know him particularly well, I will always remember his thoughtfulness and generosity during my last few weeks in Guam. Many thanks to you and Ruth and the rest of your family for sharing Christian with all of us. My hope is that you will all take great comfort in the knowledge that your brother, husband and son touched so many lives in such wonderful and caring ways. I pray that the love he has shown to so many will come back to you and give you peace.

Warmly,
Marci Brunett

Justin & Ramona Mangelsdorf - School & Long Time Friends

Shaun and Terryl,
Your family has always been such a source of strength and friendship to ours; I can't begin to express the impact. I am very, very sorry for the loss you have suffered, and know that words ultimately fail to ease the range of emotion I know you are experiencing. Please know that our deepest thoughts and prayers are with you.
My memories of Christian date back to his teen years - and I promise I will never forget his life and the unbelievable impact he had on so many people.

With love,
Justin and Ramona Mangelsdorf

Heather & Brian Edwards, US Navy VP-9

Dear Shaun,
I am so sorry to hear what has happened. Our hearts are deeply saddened with the devastating news. My husband and I were very good friends with both Christian and Ruth. We all attended the University of San Diego together, and then my husband and Christian attended OSC flight school together in Pensacola, FL, and Corpus Christi, TX. We became closest to Christian and Ruth when we had the chance to live next door to each other while in Corpus Christi, TX. Following flight school, my husband chose to become a P-3 pilot while Christian became a helicopter pilot. We were sent to Hawaii (and are currently stationed in Hawaii at Marine Corps Base Kaneohe Bay, VP-9) while Christian and Ruth were sent to Guam. I guess it was then that we are sorry to say that we sort of lost touch. We have never forgotten them and always hoped to be stationed near each other again. We had so many good times that we shared while being neighbors. Some of my favorite memories are the ruthless Uno games we'd all play together on many weekend nights, making fools of ourselves playing numerous Cranium games, sharing a meal together at Sonic, going to the scariest "Texan style" of haunted haunted house (which took place on a tractor) that I've ever experienced in my life, watching Christian and Ruth raise their baby lovebird Lou, and sharing many laughs and good stories, as well as important holiday's together such as Thanksgiving. Ruth & Christian were definitely considered to be family to us and will always be. They were a beautiful couple and Christian was an amazing pilot, friend, and husband. We will miss him greatly. Ruth, we love you and miss you and want you to know that you are always welcome in our home and we are thinking about you. We wish there was some way that we could comfort you. We will continue to pray for you all.

God bless you all,

Heather and Brian Edwards

PO3 Jordan Schuster, US Navy 2515th NAAD

Shaun,
I'm yet another member of Det 2, and by now I'm sure you are beginning to see just how big of an impact he had on that detatchment. I remember him for the numerous sit downs he and I had about my career and the path I should take. He has influenced my life both professionally and personally, and his advice will continue to contribute to the decisions I make over the next couple years. I'm sure there are dozens of other people who can make such a statement, and wish we could repay the favor.
My thoughts and prayers go out to you, your family and the hundreds of friends your brother had.
V/R,
Jordan Schuster

ps. I'd like to thank LCDR Nolan for posting the pictures of us in Simeulue. That was one of the most rewarding experiences I could ever hope for.

Mindy Pidek, Friend

Regarding Ruthie:

Hi Shaun,
My name is Mindy Pidek. We were all close neighbors and friends in Corpus Christi and tried to keep in touch over the years. I just want more than anything right now to be there for her and let your whole family know how deeply sorry I am. I loved being around them both so much and felt like a better person because of them. They truly made life bearable for us both in Corpus Christi. We would also like any information you could give on when the burial might be and will make every effort to be there. I appreciate your help. Thanks!
~ Mindy Pidek

LT. David Landeros, HM-15 Pilot, US Navy, USD

Shaun,

My family and I offer our deepest condolences.
I met your awesome brother Christian seven years ago while attending school at USD. We went through the pains of flight school together, but all the while I could always count on him to make the tough times fade away with laughter. I remember him and Ruth living in their first apartment with nothing but themselves, their love and their happiness, and I was glad for them. I was glad that my wife and kids were able to meet Christian and see a perfect example of a true friend.
The day I heard the news, I did not know what to do. I kept saying to myself that it wasn’t true. I didn’t have the group of friends around me that knew you, so I couldn’t share the pain that was tearing deep inside of me. I couldn’t imagine how your family was taking your loss, and what could I say to make to make the pain go away and bring you back.
You were such a good friend, I wish that you were still here. One day I’ll see you in Heaven buddy.

LT Dave Landeros

AN Charles Beatty, Guam, HSC-25 US Navy

Shaun,
Hi, my name is AN Beatty. I would like to say how sorry I feel for your significant loss and your family is in my prayers. I deployed with LT Hescock on the Shasta, Mercy, and the Flint. There are no words to express how I feel right now. Your brother was an admirable individual on and off duty and was always willing to lend a hand to anyone in need. As our division officer he put his people first and always made it his priority to cater to their problems. Also, his sense of humor was priceless. Mr. Hescock was by far the most knowledgeable person I have ever met. I was proud to call him sir, and I did on a daily basis.
I would like to share a story with you that showed how courteous and important your brother was to me. Just about a month ago I got in some trouble and was going to get separated from the military. LT. Hescock was there for me and guided me through this rough time in my career. He advised me that I should write a letter with my deepest apologies and ask for forgiveness. I agreed and had three days to draft up this letter. After finishing the letter, I showed him, and he said it could use a little bit of work. He then proceeded to take it home on his off time and add some of his past experiences with me to this letter. I got the revised letter back from him and was just ecstatic. Mr. Hescock spent hours upon hours on his liberty time to help me and I could not thank him enough. I thanked him over and over again. Then I asked him how I could repay him, and he said; "Beatty, you know I work for cigarettes". This says how LT. Hescock was an above-and-beyond type of person and will be tremendously missed to say the least.
I also have some pictures I will send later from the deployments your family may enjoy.

Sincerely,
Charles Beatty, HSC-25, USN

Frank & Ruth VonHutten - Church Friends

Hello Shaun,
We have just heard of the accident of Christian. We want to let you all know that we are praying for all of you, that God will put his angels around you and comfort you during this time of loss. We are so sorry to hear this. Christian went to youth camp with our boys Johnathan and Jason VonHutten (Hall) for several years and I know he will be missed by so many. Christian, from what I remember about him, had a really big heart and cared so much about people. He was such a sweetheart. We will all miss his smiling face walking into the church from time to time.
Shaun, that is such an awesome blog you have put together for your brother. We miss seeing you in church sitting by Lolita Brown worshipping.
Sis. Hescock, we have missed you also.
Frank and I have moved from the Oregon City area and we now go to Bro. Graves church in Gresham. It's closer to us. We love it there also. Come and visit us. Well I will let you go I know you have so much to take care of right now, but I hope to see you and your mom again sometime. Tell her hello for us and that you all are in our prayers.

God bless you,
Frank and Ruth VonHutten

CWO3 T.J. Holland and Family, HSC-25, US Navy

Shaun,
I was between duty stations (HSC-25 and Meridian, MS) when I recieved word that HSC-25 had lost a helo and one of their pilots. I was shocked to learn it was your brother. The following days and nights the same thought kept leaping to my mind, Christian was gone. It is still hard to accept that such a good man and dedicated officer has passed.Christian was, without a doubt, one the best men I have ever served with in my 28 years of Naval Service. He was a great guy, always ready to help anyone with anything, always full of good cheer and often-needed mirth. My family and I wish to say that out hearts go out to you, your family and friends, and especially to Ruth. May God smile on you all and comfort you.

Sincerely,
T. J., Diana, Kris and Cody Holland

Lisa and Jonathan Fletcher

Jonathan and I spent hours going through old photo albums looking for pictures of the good times we had with Christian. We found dozens of pictures and proceeded to relive some great memories. That's the thing about your brother...there was never a dull moment when he was around. His mischievousness and curiosity usually landed us in some pretty funny situations! Gosh how I miss his goofy grin and funny laugh. And let's not forget all the practical jokes he liked to play. Of course, he had that loving, caring side as well. He was always the first guy to lend a helping hand. That's what makes him so special. He possessed so many great qualities. I am thankful that he had found a wonderful wife to share that with. I have only met Ruth a few times, but I knew from our very first encounter that she was a terrific person. Christian would say how lucky he was to have such a wonderful wife nd how much he truly loved her. He also spoke often of his family. He loved all of you guys so much and never hesitated to say so.
Christian will be forever remembered as a wonderful son and brother, loving husband, terrific friend and all-around great human being. I will remember him as a kind, caring friend who was always there when you needed him.

Lisa

AZ1 Antonio Diaz, HSC-25 US Navy

Shaun,

I am sorry for the loss your family has suffered.
I worked with your brother at HSC-25, but we interacted more while volunteering for
various squadron projects around the island. We were tutors at our adopted middle school in the village of Yigo. He would joke with us junior personnel and give us hints on how to get a bunch of children to learn from us.
We all thought it was crazy of us to wake up early in the morning and teach a bunch of rowdy kids after a long week of working, but he encouraged us when our paths crossed at the hangar and school and said it would be worth it. He was right, it was and I am thankful I had the chance to volunteer with him. He was a kind man, and I am sure you do not need a stranger to tell you one of the many things he did for his country and the HSC-25 family. Peace be with you and all your family.

God Bless,
Antonio Diaz

OS2(AW) Bruce Golden, Guam, HSC-25, US Navy

I am OS2 Bruce Golden and I had the privilege of work for LT at HSC-25 for about 4 months. I consider myself to be self motivated, however, I can truly say that I have never in my 9+ years in the Navy been motivated, inspired, and encouraged like I've been for the past 4 months.
I have a story I would like to share. Recently I had the opportunity to travel with LT. I had to attend a Security Manager's Course in San Diego and he had some budget issues to iron out with the big wigs in San Diego. The trip Started out pretty funny when he and his wife Ruth picked me up from my apartment on the way to the Guam Airport. LT was running a few minutes behind and he told me that Ruth was pretty convinced that I had decided to head on to the airport thinking that he had forgotten to pick me up. I thought that was pretty funny because he said that she continuously reminded him of how late he was and then saying he should slow down. During our flight to S.D. I had a chance to get to know L.T. more than someone my rank would normally get to know their Division Officer. We discussed politics more than anything and he was so knowledgeable about the subject I almost felt like he was going to take a stab at the Governors position. He talked about his wife a lot and I can remember saying to myself " he really loves his wife". On the flight back to Guam is when I can't remember laughing so much. LT was in the isle seat on the left side of the plane and I had the aisle set to the right of him but I was in the middle row of seats. To the left of LT was a 7/8 year old kid named George whom had the window. There was a movie playing at the beginning so we didn't talk much but I noticed LT and the kid were talking a little. He was telling LT how he was flying alone and his Mom was going to pick him up once we arrived in Hawaii. Well, directly behind LT was a middle age woman and to the left of her was her 6/7 year old daughter. Apparently, the little girl had been kicking the back of Georges chair since take off and he had grown pretty tired of it. About 2 hours into the flight I heard George tell LT "excuse me for 1 minute Sir". George turned around very calmly, looked directly at the Mother while pointing at the little girl and said "If she doesn't stop kicking my chair I'm going to pull her hair". LT and I almost fell out our seats laughing. The Mom then looked around LT's seat and gave him a mean look as to assume she thought little George was LT's son. He noticed and didn't hesitate to notify the lady that George was traveling alone. The lady and her daughter changed seats and about 20 minutes later the little girl started kicking LT's seat. Little George noticed, looked at LT out the corner of his eyes and said in a very mature voice "would you like me to take care of it". LT smiled told him no thanks.
Shaun, your brother will missed by everyone who had the chance to know him and my thoughts and prayers go out to your entire family.

OS2(AW) Bruce Golden

Paddy & Elaine Hescock - Family

Shaun;

My name is Paddy Hescock, I am Lonnie’s oldest son. I am very saddened about the loss of your brother, it is a sad occurrence. Although I only knew of him and did not know him personally it puts a sad spot in my heart to have lost him. Your memorial is a beautiful thing and really shows the love you have for your brother, my heart goes out to you for your great loss.

I live in Marysville, Wash., Marty sent me the sad news.

Please accept my wife and my deepest sympathy for all who were close to Christian, I am sure he will be missed very much by all.

Can you tell me a little about him, I do not know many of my fellow Hescocks. Met some at Marty’s wedding a few years ago and would really like to know and meet more.

Warm Regards,
Paddy and Elaine Hescock

Kerri York, Family

Dear Shaun,
Uncle Marty shared the tragic news of Christian with me today via email. It has been such a long time since I've seen you or Christian (I think I remember you guys when you were little and Grandma Hescock would share stories about you! My dad is Lonnie.) My heart goes out to you, Christian's wife Ruth and the rest of the family. Please share my note with your dad. I last saw him at Uncle Marty's wedding.

Please let me know if there's anything I can do to help! My husband is active duty Air Force, stationed in Germany, but I am living in Spokane, WA til he comes home in March and would be able to come in a moment's notice. If there is a larger Hescock family gathering, I'd love to be a part of it.

With much love,
Kerri York

Shawn, Shannon, and Amelia Duffy

Shaun-
We are so sorry for your loss. Unfortunately we never had the honor of meeting your brother, but he obviously was a wonderful person who touched many lives and will truly be missed. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Thank you to those who fight for our Country and the wives and families who welcome them home with open arms.
God Bless!

Shawn, Shannon & Amelia Duffy

Kim Tuckey - Family Friend

My very deepest sympathies:

Dear Terryl and Shaun,

There is no adequate way to express my sympathy. I have always held your family in my thoughts, ever since you so graciously included me in several of your church, school, and family activities years ago. It was so gracious of you three, and I never will forget your kindness. Christian is so much a part of those memories for me.

I remember how purposeful he was, even as a teen. I remember admiring that about him even then. He was a boy who knew what he was going to do with his life and then as a man, fulfilled that plan. He died living the life he planned for himself, in service to his country. Few of us do so well with the time we are given.

He was funny, respectful, kind, and honorable. He could keep me laughing with the stories of his escapades with his friends and brother, he astonished me with his financial responsibility even as a kid, and he impressed me with his commitment to his family’s well-being. It is heart-breaking to know he is gone.

I was overwhelmed with grief when I got the news. I can’t begin to know what it must be like for you both and his wife. I imagine it was, is, and will continue to be a nearly unbearable pain; if there is anything I can do for you, please let me know.

Sincerely,
Kim Tuckey

Shawn & Kelli Pearcy, CW02, 2515TH NAAD, HSC-25, US Navy

Shaun,
Please accept mine and my wife Kelli's condolences for such a tragic loss. I cannot imagine the pain you and your family are feeling from such a sudden loss of a brother, son, and husband. I did not know Christian for very long, but from the first minute of talking to him I could tell he was a stand up guy. With both of us deployed a lot while at the command, our wives are left to hold down the fort, and during that time Kelli and Ruth became good friends. It was through our wives that I had the honor of getting to know Christian outside of work or Wardroom events, and in a very short time came to know him as a friend.
Christian was one of the rare people in this world that truly placed the needs of others before himself. Maybe it was because he was a little older and wiser then the average lieutenant, or that he had several years of enlisted experience under his belt, but he was the kind of guy that would set aside his work or stay late in a heart beat to help a younger Sailor or fellow Officer in need. I can think of several times that Christian showed up quite tardy to free beer at the club or a get together because he was helping someone else out at work. He did this even though as the command's computer guru he had plenty on his plate, and he always did it with a smile. I really can't think of any time I heard Christian complain about anything.
Just before the accident Kelli had given Christian a round of golf for his birthday. My son loves golf, and with me being deployed Christian had no problems letting him play along. How many grown men would want or even think of letting another man's 13 year old son tag along on the course? Christian was that type of man, and he did it just because it made my son's day, even though for most people it would've been so much easier to just say "not this time kid." A day or two before he was lost Christian was at our house fixing the home computer for my wife, and for part of the time I was on the phone with him from Kuwait. I knew he had a lot to do at work already and was putting in some long hours, with both his ground job as well as flying in preparation to join us out here, but when I thanked him his only response was "no problem bro, your wife needs to be able to talk to you." This was just Christian, always putting others before himself.
To Ruth, words cannot express how sorry Kelli and I are for your loss. Our only hope is that somehow the solace in knowing how much he loved and cared for you will somehow ease the pain over time. Like that day we were diving and you got sea sick on the surface, rather than tell you to get on the boat and wait while he dove Christian instead took your hand and descended with you. Just as he stayed with you that day and many others he will always be with you. You were his world, and I do not believe love like that can be lost by physical separation here on earth.
Words can never fill the void left by Christian, he was one of a kind. A dedicated sailor, an outstanding Naval Officer, a loving son and brother, a devoted husband, and lucky for me a friend. I will truly miss the simple things we take for granted, the banter over email, giving him a hard time about his five o'clock shadow at 0900, or just kicking back for a beer and some laughs on someone's back porch. Christian always gave 110%, his drive enabled him to achieve his dream of becoming a Naval Aviator, and even after that 110% he always had more to spare for those around him.
Take care bro, we are all better people for knowing you and you will never be forgotten.
Shawn & Kelli Pearcy

CWO2 Shawn M. Pearcy, USN,
7341 Maintenance Material Control Officer
2515th Navy Air Ambulance Detachment
Camp Buehring, Kuwait

Peg & Bill Ramey - Navy Parents

From Damien Ramey's Mom:

Dear Shaun,
Please let me give my sincere condolences on your brother, and please pass them on to his wife Ruth and the family, from my self and my husband Bill. I all know to well what you are going through. Damien was also involved in a helo crash, China Lake. Lost two,
Great people, thankfully Damien survived. My heart goes out to you all. I always think it might me mine someday and I pray it never to be.
This is the life they have chosen, it has given great rewards, and also has its regrets. Damien is in the middle east now and I am sure would rather be with his squadron the Island Knights at this time, to help out his fellow comrades, back in Guam. I know his wife Sondra is helping and I am thankful for her. One thing I have learned about SAR is that it is the best group of men and women I have ever has the pleasure to meet. If you never had a family join this group you will be loved and stood by forever no matter what.
Words cannot express my gratitude to you brother for serving his country, and doing what he does best, may God bless him , and your family, and tell Christian to Fly High he is an angel in the Sky,

Sincerely,
With much love Peg and Bill Ramey

AZ3 Angelica "Angel" Wood, Guam, VAW-116, US Navy

Shaun,
I didn't really get a chance to know Mr. Hescock very well, but I do remember him. He was positive influence on those he worked with and an inspiration even to those he didn't. May you and the rest of his family and friends have God's guidance in this time of pain and sorrow.

~AZ3 Angelica "Angel" Wood

Julie and Cliff Uddenberg

Memorial fund?



Hello Shaun,
I am sorry to hear of your loss. You have created a beautiful site to help us all remember your brother. I am the president of HSC-3 Officers Spouses Club and we would like to know if there is a memorial fund that has been set up that we may contribute? If you know of something specific that may help Ruth through this difficult time we would much appreciate the information. We'd like to help where we can from a distance. You all are in our prayers!



Sincerly,
Julie Uddenberg



There isn't to my knowledge.

Frank Devorak, Navy Dad

A Navy Dad:

Dear Shaun and family,
My son served with your brother at HSC25. Lt. Hescock was a part of several conversations I have had with Nick. He was and still is an inspiration to my son and fellow members of the squadron. As a former member of the military I realize the sacrifice our men and women make on a daily basis and I salute them all. My deepest condolences to you and your family for your terrible loss. I know that Lt. Hescock will be missed but not forgotten. I also salute you for creating such an outstanding memorial tribute to your brother. The love and affection that is in this memorial will give you and Lt. Hescock's wife and all of your friends and family some comfort during these times of grief.

God Bless you all,
Frank Devorak a proud Navy Dad

Kirk & Kathryn Allen, HC-11, San Diego, US Navy

Shaun,
My wife Kathryn and I would like to commend and thank you for building such a tribute for your brother. Both of us served with your brother at HC-11 during the mid-1990's; my wife Kathryn served topside in Aircrew/NATOPS - both of them bummed more than their fair share of smokes off of each other… ...in the "Pit"…
I on the other hand had the pleasure to turn wrenches alongside your brother, to fly with your brother, to party - get stupid - and pass out at the Fletcher's - with your brother, and at times argue with your brother as only true shipmates (or brothers) can argue with one another……
One of my most fondest memories with your brother was not flying and doing brave and sometimes droll or dull helicopter stuff - but dancing to the Village Peoples "YMCA" alongside him at one of Jonathan & Lisa's many disco parties….
Chris will always be a young H-46 CrewChief/Rescue Swimmer on a typically nice San Diego day to us….

Kirk & Kathryn Allen Busti NY
Respectfully, Kirk Allen,
QAS ASQ-CQIA, WSO-CGSO/CGEO DCMA Buffalo
Falconer Field Office

IT2 Nicholas Devorak, Guam, HSC-25, US Navy

Shaun,
Having never been in your situation I can not even begin to image what you and your family are going through. I only ask that you and the entire Hescock family accept my deepest condolences. I am certain all of you are honored to have known LT Hescock better than any of us were given the opportunity to. While I did not fly with him I did have the privilege of sharing an office with your brother for the past 9 months. During this time I was blessed to get to know him as a friend and mentor as well as a boss. I will never enter the office again without thinking of him at his desk calling out, whatever crazy name he decided to call me that day, checking the status of the many projects we had going. No matter the work load he always took time to joke and humor us with his quick wit. He helped me not only in the advancement of my career, but as a person. He will be missed but never forgotten and we are all better for having had the chance to know him.

IT2 Nick Devorak

I collected all of the pictures I could find in our archives and passed them on to LCDR Orlosky. He should being sending them to your family. If there is anything you or your family need from us please contact me and let me know.

I would be more than happy to send any photos from the command that you may want. Once again thank you for your time and for sharing your brother with all of us.

Troy Cooper, Close Friend

When I think about your life Critter, I have come to the conclusion that some how you new you wouldn't be here long. You were so good to everyone you came in contact with, no matter who they were. You loved the people that you were closest to no matter their faults. You had a way of making everyone feel special. Christian, you gave everyone equal respect and you had a great zest for life. If I can find any good in this great tragedy, it is that I will now pledge my life to yours, to live my life like you did yours, Christian. I will passionately love my family and friends, be the best Father I can to my wonderful kids, be a great husband to my lovely wife Keeley, and try to treat everyone with equal respect. So if we that new Christan can be half the person he was, we will be honoring his time on earth with great respect. I want to thank you for being part of my life, and being my best friend. I will never forget you.

Your friend,
Troy Cooper

David Thatcher

My deepest condolences:

To the family of Lt. John Hescock:
As a Vietnam veteran and the uncle of the other pilot on that aircraft, I cannot express in words how saddened I am at your loss. The military is a brotherhood and the loss of any member of the family is devastating. I thank God that my nephew will recover from his physical injuries but also know that the emotional pain at this tragic loss of his friend, comrade, and fellow aviator will never completely be forgotten.
Our deepest condolences and our thoughts and prayers are with you.

David Thatcher

Carissa (Utley) Moore, Church Friend

Hi Shaun
Its Carissa Moore (Utley). I hope you remember me. I am Shelley Dillons Best friend and have known you and Christian since I was 12 years old. I first met Christian at youth Camp when I was 12 and continued to stay in touch over the years until I was 19. Even though we lost touch I still thought of him from time to time. He was the sweetest and kindest person; a true heart of gold. I will miss him. He was the kind of person that would do anything for anyone. I really admire what he has done and did for our country. I have so many memories of him and with you, Shaun. Im just glad I can say that I knew him.

Carissa

Donna (Gleason ) Pollard, Church & School Friend

Dear Shaun,
How can you possibly express in a few sentences the impact one life has upon another??? From the moment I heard the tragic news on Monday morning until today, countless memories have been pouring into my mind. I will never forget the “good old days” in school when the two of you would come crashing through the doors and jumping over tables – good times! We also discovered that Christian was pretty good at walking on stilts, and many other memories I recall from those school years. I also remember spending time with Christian while he was stationed in San Diego when a group of us were there for the weekend. I honor his sacrifice and dedication to this country. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, your mom and dad, and Ruth. He will never be forgotten!

Donna (Gleason) Pollard

PR2 Kittrina Bartlett, US Navy

My name is PR2 Kittrina Bartlett. I only got to work with your brother briefly before I transferred in December. I remember your brother very well. I built up his flight gear, so I got to know him a little. He really made an impression on me. From the moment you met him, you knew he would do anything to help you, and he truly cared. As an enlisted, I really looked up to him. He will never be forgotten. My sincerest condolences.

LT Jim Kiffer, HSC-25, US Navy

A message from Christain's golfing, drinking, and cigar smoking buddy:

Dear Shaun and the Hescock family,

My name is LT Jim Kiffer, Christian and I met while checking into VT-28 in Corpus Christi. We followed each other all through flight school eventually ending up together here at HSC-25 in Guam. We had always known each other but were never really close, until I returned from DET. Our wives hung out nearly daily so Christian and I started seeing each other a lot as well.

It turned out we enjoyed several things in common, Beer, Cigars and Golfing. Christian was one of the most real, honest and loyal friends any man could ever wish to have. Christian was one of those friends who always had time to help, no matter what. When my brakes started squealing Christian instantly offered to spend his Sunday with me taking care of the problem. I will always Cherish those late night back porch sessions we had, talking about life and politics and smoking fine cigars. My Wife and I will always miss him dearly, and send our condolences to you and your family.

Sincerely
Jim and Jessica Kiffer

Diane Fletcher - Jonathon's Mom

Hello Shaun,

My name is Diane Fletcher and I am Jonathan's mom. I have known Christian since he was a wet-behind-the-ears 21-year-old who had recently successfully completed rescue swimming school along with Jonathan. He and Jonathan were both being stationed in San Diego, and he stayed with Jonathan and me in Northern California for a few days on his way from Oregon to San Diego, while Jonathan was packing up his things. Over the years, I have observed him grow from a young man who was certain he was going to conquer the world and felt he was invincible, into a mature, compassionate, dedicated, committed and focused man who realized, although he couldn't conquer the world, he could make an enormous contribution toward making the United States a better and safer place.

While Jonathan and Christian were stationed in Pensacola, they spent time with my brother David, who was living there. Whether we were in San Diego or Pensacola, Christian was an integral part of our family for many years and we were all deeply touched by the person that he was. His sense of humor and "touch of mischief" made him a delightful addition to any family gathering.

He always spoke so highly of you, referring often to your "genius". He openly loved and respected your mom and dad. He loved you all very deeply. His eyes twinkled when he looked at Ruth or spoke of her.

I feel honored to have known and loved him, and couldn't have been more proud of him when he graduated from college and then went on to become a commissioned officer. He was like my second son. I will miss his smile and the wonderful person he was. His hugs were legendary.

My heart breaks for your family and, of course, Ruth. I am so very sorry for your tragic loss. Christian will always be remembered and forever loved.

Thank you very much for creating this memorial. God Bless and comfort your family.

Mom

On September 14th, 1973 at 1:20 AM, God entrusted to me his most perfect creation. He was 10lbs. 7oz. and 23 3/4" long. Gods perfect gift and we named him after my Grandfather Christian John Nelson. Christian John Hescock brought more happiness, love, kisses, and hugs into my life than any mother had a right to expect. You may have called him best friend, Sir, Lt., husband, son-in-law, brother, but I called him SON. The most amazing thing was his ability to love each and every one of us, make time for us all, and have a special place for us in his life. After 34 short years God wanted him back.. No! I screamed, but God's will is done. Christian is having a glad reunion over there with his loved ones and we here are left with memories and shattered hearts.

My darling you were a bright shining light. You shone so bright and hot. You burned out way too soon. Godspeed from our arms to the arms of Jesus.

AWC(AW/NAC) John J. "SARDOGG" Molloy, HSC-21 US Navy

Shaun,

My name is John Molloy. I had the great privilege to serve with your brother during his first tour as an enlisted aircrewman at HC-11 from 1996-1999. I first met your brother through our good friend Jonathan Fletcher while the three of us were going through (FRAC) Fleet Replacement Aircrew School at HC-3 in January of 1996. Your brother was in the senior class and a few months ahead of me upon my arrival. Everything that you know, hear and are reading about your brother is so very true! I also am a personal witness to his good heart and friendship. Though your brother had his own studies to prepare himself for his own flights, he went out of his way to not only help me, but other prepare for theirs. Though I was not as close to your brother as Jonathan for those two were tied at the hip, I considered your brother a good friend and a true shipmate! Christian took a different career path than Jonathan and I but he didn't change. I last saw your brother roughly three weeks ago when he was here in San Diego for training. He stopped by to see some old friends around our command that he had previously served with. Jonathan and I were up in our office taking care of business when Christian arrived, Jonathan was hard at work and brainstorming over a paper he was writing and here come Christian. He sat down between us and started sharing his knowledge and way with words once again, helping Jonathan complete his task at hand so they could go out and have some fun while he was in town. YEP! That is the Christian I remember and always will, that is why I have no doubt he is in heaven with wings of gold on his back! He always gave of himself to help others! Jonathan and I were in those same seats, when we received the news of the mishap Monday morning San Diego time. My prayers go out to you, your family, Ruth and my friend Jonathan for he lost the closest thing to a brother he ever had. FLY HIGH FOR ETERNITY MY FRIEND! YOU WILL SURELY BE MISSED!

God Bless,
AWC(AW/NAC) JOHN J. "SARDOGG" MOLLOY
(HSC-21)

LT Tim Metcalf, Pilot, HSL-46 US Navy

Shaun,

My name is Tim Metcalf. I had the great pleasure of meeting Christian at USD. I was also a prior Aircew/Rescue Swimmer and in the same commissioning program. We had many wonderful times together. I started out as a Computer Science major like him and I swear I would not have made it through that semester without his help. We taught the midshipmen of the ROTC unit swimming classes and spent a few weekend mornings in the pool together. I remember the day after a Saturday pool session, he took me to meet this girl working at Starbucks. He was so funny about it, like a young boy. Little did I realize he would end up marrying this amazing woman. After graduation and preliminary flight training, Ruth and Christian went off to Corpus, we meet up again in Pensacola for Helo training. We once again became close, and spent many great evenings laughing and joking as they would come out to Milton for BBQ's. My wife and I even pawned off a kitten on them one evening. But the funniest memory I have of Christian, is him setting off fireworks one fourth of July. He must have spent hundreds of dollars, and with Ruth in the backgound (and worried) he tried to light ALL them off. We had to hide many of them or it would have lasted for days. He was always ready to have fun and help out. When my family and I moved into Military housing, he was there, with his truck, without hesitation. He helped when no one else could. That was the way he was, always there for anyone.Everyone who had the fortune of knowing him, has lost a truely amazing person. I have lost a friend I loved as a brother. Ruth and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. I am SO SO SORRY for your loss!

Bonnie Swearingen

Tommy Butts is my son-in-law and I met Christian and Ruth while visiting Tommy and my daughter Stephanie in Pensacola. I found Christian outgoing and dedicated to his career in the Navy. I was saddened when Steph called me. Such a tragic loss. My thoughts go out to your family and Ruth. May the peace of the Lord be with you and hold you in his hands.
Take care.

Bonnie Swearingen

LT Tara Collins, Ships Nurse, US Navy

Shaun,

I just learned this morning of Christian’s accident. I was stationed on the USNS Mercy last year on the humanitarian assistance mission with the HS-25 crew. I was a nurse on board and there were multiple times that they were needed on a professional basis. The entire crew is truly like a band of brothers. In reading LCDR Nolan’s story about Simuleue it brought back a lot of memories and every word was absolutely true. I remember hearing that story from Christian and the boys and it was truly a highlight for a lot of us there.

Christian to me is definitely a true patriot and hero. He was always professional and talked very highly of everyone in his family. I can think of a few stories now that we swapped regarding brothers and childhood that bring a smile to my face. A real friend…I joked with him when the boys were flying off that I would see him again on a medevac in the middle of the desert from out of nowhere. My heart is with your family and with his wife Ruth. He was ever the professional and a really good person with a huge heart. I can’t forget that he was also a card shark when it came to spades. I will miss him and pray for everyone in their Det…Bruce, Tommy and Andre…my prayers are with you guys.

Tara

LT Collins, Tara
SHIPS NURSE
USS NIMITZ (CVN- 68)

Bryan Loun, Oregon State Captain - Patriot Guard Riders

Shaun,
On behalf of the Patriot Guard Riders, I wish to extend my deepest condolences for the loss of your brother . I can not begin to imagine the pains you have to endure. Please know that your brother LT Christian John Hescock is a true American hero. If there is anything we can do to ease the burden, please let me know. It would be an honor to stand for him.

Bryan Loun
Oregon State Captain
Patriot Guard Riders

Shane Baker, US Navy 2515th NAAD

Shaun,
first of all I would just like to express how deeply sorry I am for you and your family's loss. My name is Shane Baker. My job is to take care of flight gear for Pilots and Aircrew. I never got to actually sit down and talk to your brother, but I did have the pleasure of seeing him pass in and out of my shop to grab his flight gear on the way to the Aircraft. He always had a smile on his face and was always willing to help anyone in need. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your family, and his wife Ruth. He will be truly missed by everyone who had the pleasure of knowing him.

Respectfully,
PRAN Shane Baker

PO1 Christopher Snow, US Navy 2515th NAAD

Shaun,

First of all, I am truly sorry for your loss. I will continue to keep your family in my thoughts and prayers. I served with your brother on Detachment Two. I have so many fond memories cruising with him. Mr. Hescock was the ultimate Sailor. He taught me so much about the Navy but more importantly he taught me more about life He loved his job. He told me once that his ultimate thrill wasn't flying it was helping young sailors. I owe a lot of my success to your brother. Shaun, your brother was a once in a lifetime officer, he will be missed dearly…….
Respectfully,
Chris Snow

Marvin and Ellen Wallace

Dear Shaun and Terri,

We were so saddened to hear about Christian. Our hearts and prayers go out to you.
I am a member of the Patriot Guard Riders, an organization of some 113,000 members nationwide formed just in the last few years. They are a group throughout the U.S. of mostly veterans who honor both the fallen as well as returning servicemen from duty.
I have given your name to Bryan Loun who is the Captain for the state of Oregon. Their website is www.patriotguard.org so you can familiarize yourself with our missions. They can be there to honor Christian at his service in Oregon but only by INVITATION from the family. If you (or Ruth) decide, you may end up with a funeral escort of a hundred or more motorcycles, all flying American flags.
One of the missions I rode on was over 250 motorcycles in the funeral cortage. The decision would be by whoever in the family would be making the arrangements. At least please read the mission statement and see (right side of website) some of the missions we have been on.
May the Lord bless you and give you comfort during this time.

Respectfully,
Marvin and Ellen Wallace

Wendy Pollan

Shaun,

People come into our lives for a reason I am so glad I met you and your mom Terryl. I wanted to meet Christian and Ruth. I wish i did in July when they were here. I am so glad we have heroes to look up to like your brother in this world. My daughter Gabby can sleep at night knowing our service men are out there risking there lives for our freedoms. Our deepest condolences to you and your family, I am keeping you all in my prayers.
Wendy and Gabby

Kenny & Lisa More - Navy Parents

Hello Shaun,

Let me start by saying how very sorry we for your family's loss. May God hold you close to his heart as you and your family deal with this tragedy. After reading most of the blogs, I am convinced your brother was one heck of a man. We have been praying for your family since we heard about this tragic event. We also are a Navy family that is very proud to have a son serving our great country. I feel in my heart that your brothers heroic effort to land the aircraft in the water saved three other lives. My only wish is that your brother would have walked away with our son and the other two crewmembers on Monday night. Please let us know if there is anything we can do for your family.

God bless you and your family,
Kenny and Lisa Moore
Parents of PO2 Jeffery N. Moore

Jennifer Gaugler - Navy Wife

Your brother:

Shaun,

I arrived on Guam less than 2 months ago and never met your brother. However, my husband Ted was one of Christain's flight instructors at Whiting and knew him well. Ted rarely talked about his students, but he did talk often about Christian.
Christian was an absolute joy to fly with then and Ted was so looking forward to flying with him again in HSC-25 when he returns from deployment. I am so sorry that he never had the chance. Before attending the memorial service for Christian today, I took some pictures of the base flags at half staff. I thought you would like to see them flying that way in honor of your brother.

Bless you and your family and bless Ruth.

Jennifer Gaugler

LCDR Bruce Nolan, HSC-25 US Navy

Christian remembered:

Shaun,

I've been sitting here staring at this message now for a while. I keep writing, then deleting, the opening lines. I don't know what to say. I don't know words enough to say. I've been trying to do everything I can for Ruth. I also want to be able to do anything I can for you and the rest of your family. I do this because I know that Christian would have done the same for any of us.

Today was the memorial service. I heard your letter read and thank you for mentioning me. But you have to know, that I did this not because anyone told me to. I asked to be there when Ruth was notified. I wanted it to come from someone who knew him well. When I talked to your mother on the phone, it was so hard to tell her. I wanted to look you and your mother in the eye and tell you both that Christian was in an accident. I hated that I had to do it over the phone like that. But, unfortunately 7,000 miles of ocean separate us. I sincerely hope that one day, I can shake your hand and tell you what a great brother you had. I want to tell your mother I am so sorry. I want to tell your father how much Christian respected him. Christian used to tell me stories of sitting in coffee shops on his webcam and helping your father out with his computer problems. I know you all miss him, but you also have to know what a great man he was and how many people he moved.

It will be your choice whether to post the above message to you on the site. Please post the below story though:

There are a lot of great pictures of Christian on the site. However, the one that seems to be everyone's favorite is the close up of Christian holding the small boy in front of the helicopter. It was one of the first one's posted on your memorial blog. It appeared on every website with the news. We had it framed for the memorial service. I thought you should know the story behind it and see some other pictures of the same time.

We were on DET 2 on the USNS MERCY mission. It was a humanitarian mission to bring free medical care, medical education, and training to the Philippines, Indonesia, Bangladesh, and East Timor. The picture was taken during a mission in Simeulue, Indonesia off the coast of Sumatra near Banda Ache. It was hit by the Tsunami a couple of years before and we were trying to do what we could to help the area improve conditions. We had a difficult flight schedule and could not really work it out. So we decided to bring the helicopter into the landing zone and shut down to let the other helicopter continue with the other operations. Someone told me that it might be fun because we were going to a school and the children could get to see a helicopter and meet the people that fly it. Christian immediately volunteered. When we got to the zone and shut down, the children were hesitant to come over. Christian and the other aircrewmen stood next to the helicopter and invited a couple of the kids over. Then more came over. Then more, and more, and more. Pretty soon we were all laughing and showing the kids around. They were shaking our hand and putting our hand to their forehead, which I was told was a great sign of respect. They loved to get their pictures taken and then look at them on the digital cameras, even though we were could not print out any pictures for them. The adults showed appreciation with a lunch and coconut milk drinks. (One of the other pictures that I sent earlier with Christian sitting outside with a coconut drink in front of him.) That was one of my best experiences from the deployment and Christian was there. He connected with the kids, made them feel comfortable, made them laugh... It was like he was their best friend. And not one of them spoke English. That was the kind of person Christian was. It didn't matter what he said. It was his spirit that made him who he was. But I am sure that you know that. There are so many posts from people that were inspired by Christian. I said it before, he was a good man. He was respected by his superiors, his peers, those that worked for him, and those that he just knew. I could tell all kinds of stories of his selflessness, his unending devotion, and his work ethic. But you have read all those already.

Christian, we are going to miss you. But you touched our hearts, our spirits, and our minds. I salute your life. I won't forget. "Det 2 remembers... Always!"

Bruce Nolan

PS. A special thanks to PH1 Latham who took the original picture. I am not sure he knows how much it will be remembered.

Lt. Andre Gomez, HSC-25 US Navy, Pilot

HSC-25:

Shaun,

My name is LT Andre Gomez. I’ve had the pleasure of knowing your brother since flight school in Pensacola. We deployed together on the USNS MERCY and were set to deploy together again next month. We had been flying together quite a bit recently preparing for our upcoming deployment. He was an outstanding pilot and an even better friend and I will miss him immensely. He was always there when you needed him. I remember on Sunday LT Dehner and I were preparing an extensive brief for our flight the next night. Christian was flying with us but not required to help with the brief. He came in anyway to help for several hours AFTER helping LT Kiffer fix his car, then left work to support a beach clean up with Ruth. This is the type of person he was.

Christian had a great sense of humor and kept everyone on their toes. He took over the room when he entered it and was everyone’s best friend. I will miss his smile and witty comments as we passed each other in the hallways at work. I am deeply sorry for your family’s loss. You, Ruth and your family will be in my prayers. I will never forget him.

I have included a picture of Det 2 pilots and taxi drivers in Subic Bay, Philippines.

God Bless,

Andre

AW2 Bradley Essick, US Navy

Sorry for your loss:

Hello my name is Bradley Essick. I use to work with your brother. I can't express how sorry I am for your loss right now. I might not have known Mr. Hescock as well as others but i did know him as a co-worker. He was one to always have a smile on his face and a cheerful attitude. I have recently been discharged from the service. One thing your brother told me as I checked out two weeks ago that i will take with me forever is, "This isn't the end, keep driving forward and good things will come." I know my words can never replace your brother, but this isn't the end for him, he has started a new journey. Your brother has inspired me to know that when one day ends, another begins for that I'm glad to have met him and known him and call him sir.

AW2 Bradley Essick

Cara (Koenig) Hall - Church & School Friend

Hi Shaun.....

Thanks so much for starting this blog where we can all share our memories of our dear friend Christian. I have so many fond memories of him during our school days. I, (like Noel), laughingly remember you and Christian running laps in the fellowship hall knocking over chairs, tables and whatever else was in your way!! I think it was a daily occurrence! He was such a wonderful friend (and big brother), and I feel honored to have known him. I am also thankful for his service to our country. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you.

Love and prayers,
Cara (Koenig) Hall

Jonathan Kline, Pilot - US Navy

Pictures of your brother and Ruth:



Shaun,



I can't even put into words what I want to say. I've known Christian since 1998 when we cruised together on the USS ESSEX, me as a junior pilot, him as a salty 2nd Class and H-46 Crewchief. I had the pleasure of serving with him again in Guam for 2 years He was a mentor to me when I was a junior pilot, new to the navy, trying to figure things out. The biggest compliment that I can think of is that there are people that you serve with in the Navy, that if you never serve with them again...well, that's okay. Christian was just the opposite. When he was selected for Seaman to Admiral, I hoped that I would serve with him again. When I left Guam, just last month, I got to have a long talk with him about life, the Navy and whatever came up. I left there with the same sense of hope that we would serve together again. He was that good as a person, as an Officer, and as a leader. He made a difference in people's lives.

I do have a story for you, and I will get it to you this weekend. It is the story of Christian that I remember most.


I have attached a couple of pictures for you as well. Can you please make sure that they get to Ruth also?



Jon Kline

* USS Essex - Number 2 on the hull, but second to none!

Amanda Pearson - Church friend

Sorry to hear about your brother:

Dear Shaun,

I don't really remember your brother that much growing up, but I do remember how proud everyone was of him. I am truly sorry to hear about your loss, please let your mother and the rest of your family know that our prayers are with you. My mother and myself would like to know it there is going to be any kind of memorial here in Oregon for Christian? My Sister Tammie told me to tell you that her heart goes out to you and your family. May God bless you in this time of loss.

Amanda Pearson

I DO BELIEVE

by Jennifer Janiszewski

There is nothing i can do, to make him come back

There are no words I can say, that can replace the words you long to hear
There are no answer's I can give, that will satisfy your questions

There is not another soul I can introduce you to that will ever replace his

And, there is no love I can offer that will ever replace the love you shared
I can not promise your broken heart will ever be complete

I will not say it could have been worse

I will not deny it was a tragedy

I will not lie and tell you he will come back
He never really left
I do promise he hears you when you speak

I will say he loves you no matter the distance

I will not deny he is in a better place

And, I will not lie; he is waiting to greet you someday
He is every you step you take

He is in everything you do

He is the air you breathe

He is every beat of your heart
" He is like the wind. You can not see him...but you will always feel him"

YNC Larry "Tony" Zabel - US Navy

My name is YNC Larry Zabel
First of all my prayers and thoughts go out to the family of LT Hescock. I was TAD to HSC-25 for 6 months working as the Admin Chief. Upon my arrival I began turning over the Security Manager position to LT Hescock. I worked hand in hand on a daily basis with LT and through our talks I realized how brilliant this Naval Officer was. He was proud of his degree and what he was doing for his country. Even though LT seemed laid back he was also a professional and took the job as serious as any officer in the Aviation Community. I can honestly say that he helped me both professionally and personally. The Navy will miss him and the country as a whole just doesn't realize what kind of pilot we have lost - but I do and he will never be forgotten.
God Bless
Larry Zabel "Tony"

AN Edwin Alcaraz, HSC-25

About Lt. Hescock:

Hi Shaun,

My name is Edwin Alcaraz, I am the command photographer/webmaster in which I had the great pleasure of working for your brother within the same department. His presence is missed here, and the place just isn't the same without him. Even though I only knew and got to work with him briefly, he had always been a familiar face to me because I would always see him volunteering his time to help out the local community, it showed his true character. It was only last week when I had a sit-down with him about my goals, and how for him, it had always been a dream of his to pilot an aircraft regardless of the risk or opportunity that may have been passed up, he mentioned how he could have been an underwater welder making trillions of dollars in the past, but instead chose to go through with his life-long dream. His words gave me the inspiration to go through with my dreams. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your family, and his wife Ruth, who he spoke admirably about as not only a great and loving wife, but a wonderful and talented artist as well.

Dan Kissel - US Navy

From the Kissel Family in Chesapeake, VA

Please accept our greatest sympathy. We can not express how shocking this is and how difficult it is for the Navy family and most of all your family. I was stationed with Christian for a short time but realized fast that he was a fine American. He died doing what he loved and loved doing it for his country. God bless you and your family, you will all be in our prayers.

Dan, Nancy, and Rachel

Garcy Gaminde - US Navy

Condolences:

Shaun,

I just want to offer my condolences to your family and Christian's wife Ruth. I got to know Christian since the command I am supporting, NAWMU-1, report to the same echelon in San Diego. I had the opportunity to meet Christian a few times and one thing I remember that will always be with me is how easy he was to talk with. We once talked on the phone and once the business topic was taken care of, the conversation turned to more of a personal tone. Great guy. He was one of those guys you meet in life that you get the feeling that you were friends for a while. Not too many guys in the world like that. He always ended his emails with "Thanks, Christian". Which was rare in the military world. That tells you he was comfortable with being known as Christian and not Lt. Hescock. Your parents raised a good son. There isn't much that anyone can say to make the pain of Christian's untimely death any easier. But just know that your brother was a good guy and though our meeting was brief, it was always good to see, hear and get a message from him. I wish I knew him better. My prayers are with your family and his wife Ruth. Take care, and again, my condolences to your family.

Thank you.

Garcy Gaminde

Susanna (Dinwiddie) Gangle - Church & School friend.

"Critter"

Shaun,

I haven't seen Critter (I'm sure he outgrew that nickname, but it is how I remember him) pretty much since high school, but, my memories are vivid!! He always had a smile on his face and a wise crack or two to hand out. (Sometimes at my expense, but always in fun.) If I had a penny for everytime he called me "Susanna Banana" I would be very rich! :) He always made the school day a little more interesting than it would have been otherwise. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. May God grant you peace and comfort and let His Love be real to you in a way you have never felt before.

Susanna (Dinwiddie) Gangle

AMAN Tom Warren

Dear Shaun,

My Name is AMAN Tom Warren and I was the plane captain who sent out your brother's aircraft. I was the last person to see all of the crew on the ground. I was actually sitting down and talking to him shortly before he flew. Christian was very down to earth and extremely easy to get along with. I think back to the many times I had a chance to sit down and talk to him (usually in the smoke pit), just before and after his flights, never thinking I would never see him again. We would talk about a variety of things, which always translated into me learning a great deal from him. I will miss him greatly.

V/R

AMAN Tom Warren

Geri Graf

Shaun,
As you know, I was there when you and Christian were born. Shortly thereafter, we all went our different ways and were out of touch until your Mom had her open heart surgery. She asked Christian to try to find me. He was successful and I thank God everyday that you are all back in my life.
The first time I saw Christian was when you mom had her leg amputated. I remember walking into her room and seeing him. He was so full of life sitting there in your Mom's wheelchair doing little wheelies. You could just feel the love in the room. My time with Christian was short and I am sad about that, but I feel my life is fuller for having known him. My heart goes out to you, your Mom and Ruthie. My love, prayers and support will be with you always.

Love Geri

Noel Dillon - Church & School friend

Memories of Christian:

Shaun and Terryl,

As a classmate and church friend I too have many great memories of Christian. He definitely brought energy and laughter to all our lives. Just a few things that I remember...Many times Shaun would chase Christian around school and for some reason there was a small hint of enjoyment in Christian's eyes (as he "Ran for his life). :)
Also Christian had a soft and gentle side. There were times I would watch as he would wrap his long arms around his Mother and proudly shower her with Love & Affection.
I want to say that I am honored to know Christian and thankful for his service to our Country. He will be greatly missed.
Many thoughts and prayers.

Noel (Huessy) Dillon

Ron & Celene Gay - Oregon

Our deepest sympathy:

Our son is serving in the Navy currently stationed with the HSC25 Island Knights in Guam. We extend our deepest sympathy and our prayers to your family. As fellow Oregonians and as fellow military parents our hearts are full of grief at your loss of such a fine man. Words just don't seem to be enough.

Ron & Celene Gay
Wallowa, Oregon

Phillip Wesson - Church friend

Shaun,

My friendship with you and Christian was brief. I do however only have memories of Christian with his big smile and gregarious personality. I sincerely weep with you and mourn for you. Christian will forever be in my list of personal hero's. I hold your family in my prayer.

Phillip Wesson

Scarbrough Family

Shaun,

It is times like this that words are very hard to come by. We are so very sorry for this tragic situation and the loss of Christian to you, your family, and the rest who knew and loved Christian. Christian may no longer be physically here, but will remain in the memories of all who knew and shared times with him. Nothing can take our memories from us. This blog website is truly wonderful and I believe it will help all who visit it through this very trying time. Our condolences go to you and your family and trust that your memories, and each other, will help you.

With sympathy,

Nancy, Stewart & Stacey

Carolyn Tuchtenhagen (BeBe) - Cousin

Christian... I Love you...

Critter was the second guy to steal a piece of my heart, Shaun was the first! Critter took that piece of heart with him on Monday night. I hope he shares it with Grandma (she's gonna love you). I will surely miss him as much as I do her. I didn't get to know the man well, but I certainly remember the cutest little boy ever. And I will always remember him as my BABY. Aunty and Uncle Terry I love you both very much. And Ruth you hold on to that love for Christian tightly I'm sure he can still feel it. I pass on a sweet kiss and a goodbye to my boy Critter.

Love you always and forever,
Carolyn (Bebe) Your God Mother/cousin

Lt. Javier Araujo and Sandra Araujo

My husband and I met Christian & Ruthie while he went through Advance Training @ Whitting Field in Mitlon, FL. We attended his soft patch and winging ceremony, met your father and celebrated with them that night. We had a great group of friends while in Milton. Unfortunately everyone went separate ways and I had not been in contact with them since they left to SD/ Guam. I will remember his smile- most of all. Please let Ruthie know that she is in our thoughts and prayers. And of course to you and all your family our deepest sympathy.

LT Javier Araujo and Sandra Araujo